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Thursday, August 21, 2008

A Routine?


It's Wednesday. The middle of the week. Whereas, the peak day of all days. This is the day you should be feeling energetic towards whatever things you are doing from the beginning of the week, and it is also the hunting to the wonder-weekend, that is soon approaching the week.

Well, for me. It is static. It's good that the week is nearly over. But then again, there is another week ahead that wee wee weekend. So, it's levelled. Basically, it's the same thing, over and over again.

Speaking of routine, same goes. With life, with people... and even sometimes with pet, if you have any. *wink*

Our life revolves around people. People means human. Human means, family, friends, lovers, enemies, employers... strangers. Technically, everyone. And it is up to the person, to actually having these people in a routine basis, or to spice things up... then it will turned out to be non-routine? Does that actually up to the person who sees these people to decide, to make it much more ecentric value by spicing up things, or it is actually the other party who did spice things up? It is still vague with mystery floating up and above.

Same goes with relationship. Not just between lovers, but between a person to another. Somehow, it can be a routine with a quick hello and bye. A friendly smile or even a simple nod. That can be acknowledged as routine. But then again, with a little high pitch voice blaring, swarming in the air... stomping foot on the floor to portray rebellious growing inside. That could be called non-routine event. Could it be?

But what happened when you are to attached with the routine of daily life you soon to forget the sparks that started it all? Would it that then be just a simple routine without anymore sparks to be cheered with? Is routine something good or it will eventually put life to pale and uninteresting life altogether?

Then come the question, would you be nice to a person just as a matter of fact that it is routine all along, and not because you want to? Or you just being the way you used to be just because you want, and you need to be such that in front of other people to make sure that people will see that nothing is wrong and all is wrong is one person is just being lunatic all along?

Would that come to the conclusion that routine is actually bad, in terms of this situation? Don't you think it is nothing but a fake person is born when routine takes control?

Why would you stay in routine mode if it's this that will happen, or it is just how you choose it to be?

In my opinion, rather than being a fake and to stay in routine, I rather a person being honest and not in a routine mode, so that the truth will be revealed, and end of story. That is the best option of all options. Unless, you are not sure of what are the things that you want. Ah, in that case, it will be in a different chapter, obviously.

Have a good night!

2 twirls with baby:

Daddy Papersurfer on August 21, 2008 at 4:41 PM said...

Our favourite routine is laughing - including at ourselves - seems to work young Baby *hugs*

[s][e][x][y][i][n][r][e][d] on August 22, 2008 at 6:53 PM said...

Routines in couples are not good. It will kill the relationship...slowly and when you realized it's maybe too late to rewind.

Routines in work are also not good...you will not learn much and basically it's sucks doing the same thing again and again. We need a tasks that challenged our mind so that we could learn more daily and at least makes the jobs looks interesting...even tho it not.

Friendship and routines might be good tho'...becoz don't we always miss the girly routines we used to do?

Eeeeeekkkkk gonna stop before I start to blabber...heh got things to do here @ work but can't resist to reply to your post here

p/s : It's been awhile since I heard the word fake been used like repeatedly. We used to use the word to refer to this on girl I guess you-know-who-very-well tehehehhehe...

 

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